Even without that, I think I will always have a little nagging fear that someday the M will end. That's one price of having gone through this - that fairy tale of happily ever after is gone for good.
Yep - I'd agree there. My H used to be the centre of my world and he isn't now. part of me mourns that loss.
I triple agree. There is no longer that comfort (however false it was in the first place) that my M will always be there. And for me...well, D has become a viable alternative for me if all else fails where in the past it just wasn't.
I miss that fairy tale security, but I know reality is ultimately better. I work harder on myself and my M.
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
