My H is has become very resentful & things like that in my stich I have learned that only come back to bite me in the a$$.
I have learned not to take an eye for an eye. I dont want to be the same person my H has become. I have told him meaness has never gotten him what he wants. So the saying "kill'm w/ kindness...it works maybe you cant tell at that moment but in the long run it does. As w/ the saying what go around comes around.
Part of showing Gods love & compassion is what I am trying to be about & you know what it keeps my mind at ease.