Quoting Sue from lisakate32's thread: what is normal, anyway?: ..I have been going along thesse past four months feeling pretty good..so why rock the boat, why ask him..
Sue, what if he is thinking along those same lines too. Things could remain the way they are now for a very long time then.
Sue, you have done a excellent job of giving him space that you have the right to ask where does he see things going without him preceiving you as pressuring or being needy. Afterall, you are still married and therefore what he is doing still affects your life to some degree. Its not very respectful to keep you in the dark for so long.
I understand your fear of the outcome of such a talk, but the fear won't prevent the outcome from eventually occuring just postpone it. Why put it off longer than need be. Do what you have to, to prepare yourself for possibility of the worst that could happen, then its time to cross the bridge in order to move on.
I'm sorry if this is too blunt, but I doing this in a bit of a hurry ... just got a call from W to please come home.
