When he came by he was very sad that none of us had at least phonesd him a bday. Or that he didnt get at least an email card (he was use to getting those from me). H was teaery when boohooing of this. Thas is when I fwelt guilty & gave him my card. His eyes lit up!!!
I dont know about your W,but my H gets emoitional about these things....
While it's great that his eyes lit up and he appreciated it, my argument on the flip side would be - if he's not your H, how long are you going to keep giving him cards as his W?
I think NOT getting a card from you would have been a much better reality check. Instead he got his party with OW AND a card from his W who's still hanging on. What a deal...
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread