It's been a few weeks since I posted to this thread. Do you think it makes a difference who initiates ML? It's ALWAYS my H's idea. Even when I try to discourage him, he is persistent. There's definitely a lot of intimacy, caring, etc. too. He'll be very loving towards me for a few days after we ML, and then he reverts back to being platonic.
H still insists that the OW isn't very good. Didn't Paul Newman say something like, "Why go out for a hamburger when I can get filet mignon at home?" I don't know about you, but if I was a guy and I had a choice between a questionable hamburger with a ton of issues and a prime well-marbled steak with God on her side, I'd go for the steak! In my humble opinion, of course. ;-)
But then again, this is adultery we're dealing with, so H and OW are obviously not in their right minds.
