For my H's bday I got him a funny "voice" card w/ Steve? from The Office. I didnt even write anything on it or sign it b/c up until the very last minute I didnt want to give it to him. We were still seperated so, I evevn though H said he wanted to come by on his bday to see his girls ,but I didnt want to see him for it hurt too much to think OW was prolly gonna give him a party.So, I told him I wouldnt be home and I had plans to come by the next day.

I got him cute cards from each of the girls.
When he came by he was very sad that none of us had at least phonesd him a bday. Or that he didnt get at least an email card (he was use to getting those from me). H was teaery when boohooing of this. Thas is when I fwelt guilty & gave him my card. His eyes lit up!!!

I dont know about your W,but my H gets emoitional about these things....