HI.. Dotto..I have not been very good at e-mails..yes the book by Chapman is great..I have not read the Love Languages yet, but the one about seperation is great..so fitting to our sitch's.It does involve religion, so if anyone is not into that, so to speak, then you might not want to read it.He quotes so much from the bible and about God. Kelli..welcome, I am not sure I have "talked "with you before..are you new to piecing or just visiting from another post? Take care Sue