on 28th Sept your H was handing out the hugs.

Fast forward a few days and your needs aren't getting met.

SD - I'm confused. And if I am you must be too!!! \:\)

What's the deal. What is getting you so down? Step back and have a look at the WHOLE big picture, not just you and H.

Once you are clearer in your head of what your goal is, then sit down with H and yes if it really needs it give him the cue cards!!! (I might steal that idea for my H).

So - in piecing goal setting can still be hugely beneficial. (In fact, I've taken goal setting into every part of my life now).

What are your goals?


Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05
Seperated Sept/Oct 05
Oct 06 - H recomitted
July 11 - I am now a WAW.