I hope things get better for you. I understand about H being gone. My H also has said he does not feel obligated to do things but he still isn't here much.
Would you recommend the book by Chapman? If so I'll buy it. Also I heard that the book "Second Honeymoon" is very good. Maybe worth the investment.
You may want to check out the "Calling all WAS" on Hopefulness forum. I got a lot out of it.
