On the flip side how does one live their life in limbo? Does she not get that this is MY life as well, this is my CHILDREN's primary family, why is the decision all HERS then?

Well, frank_d gave me all this stuff about how to reattract your wife and what not. It was definately food for thought and I'm incorporating it into who I am. I mean I guess I just am starting to feel that maybe we weren't right for each other. She's the one who sought me out when we first met. Honestly, if I were dating she's not the typical personality I gravitate towards. I guess maybe fog affects us both and I'm only starting to see bad things, I don't know. She seems to be superficially trying at the M while didn't seem to think twice before delving into the A.

Last edited by lester; 10/05/07 09:26 PM.

H 30 (me)
W 28
Married 9 yrs
2 children
EA found out on 7/5/07
ILYBNILWY 8/25/07
The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates