I'm sorry...not exactly what you want to here from your H after everything he did to you and still stood by his side.
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He sees my changes and appreciates them. He may want to work things out but has carried on w/ow for so long that he doesn't know if he can end it with her. Plus, he questions whether I can ever get over the pain he has caused me.
He's still very confused. He's still living in the fog. He has to get away from OW or there's no hope. This is exactly what my XH told me at the end of May. It's your choice Olive. You are the only one that knows what you need and want to do.
I think Theo gave you the options a while back...you should go back and find his post. 1. Go on living like this and let your H have a mistress and a wife 2. Tell him its over and you are filing for divorce...this could potentially wake him up or you could end up divorced 3. Go dark and stop making it convenient for his affair. It's been a year...that's a lot longer than most people would tolerate this. You need to find your strength and get your life back. Look at Yoyo's sitch. Do you remember how dim it seemed? Her H is coming around. She wasn't there for him and he has started to realize what he's losing. I'm going to tell you again....for your own sanity, you have to do something different....this is not working.
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