I don't think he wanted to go for a curry at all, our friends had missed our nights out and i casually said how about getting together again one night, he agreed, but without enthusiasm. I don't think he wants to stay at home with me he just didn't want to go out with me. He is never in if i'm in, he'll make an excuse to go out to the gym.
He has had his take away, a bath and now he's in bed. However, he is ALWAYS tired he is a workaholic, I agree i'm assuming, this negativity is something I need to work on. I became negative and needy when he stopped giving compliments and withdrawing himself, it was a gradual process but when i look back now it's been nearly 4 years.
It's a lonely old place.
keep talking, thanks for listening.
XD
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07
