I told H how tired I am of his secret life (which he has been trying to minimize for MONTHS). And, finally the truth. H finally told me that he doesn't know what to do. Stay or go to ow??

He sees my changes and appreciates them. He may want to work things out but has carried on w/ow for so long that he doesn't know if he can end it with her. Plus, he questions whether I can ever get over the pain he has caused me.