BS, chicki, you control you. And you be cool. As waw says, I tend to agree, cut the SOB off -- especially giving how it's making you feel. Go to Target, see if batteries are on sale. Plenty of websites out there if too embarrassed to visit a specialized "boutique."
(and he's not an SOB. Just sounds like he's scared to go to you and scared to stay where he is.) Be strong for you, your girls, and your H.
And, yes, DETACH, DETACH, DETACH
And NO JEALOUSY!!!!! (If you feel the need to mention Jerrod in front of your H again, DON'T -- shall I do this daily for you )
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
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