Not much to say..h called last night wondering where I was as I was going to church to help set up some Lent stuff..d told him I had just left..today he took his mom to a clinic in Wisc..for breathing problems and I left a message on his phone wondering how things went..and he called me back to tell me..so those are little things. I keep telling myself that the new h would probably not call me if he really wanted to get me out of his life..the old h would just because that is what he would think he should do..since he has become more assertive, he says and does things because he really wants to, not out of obligation..and that's good. Sue