CVA - thin PJ's & Massages

[Heimlich]

If you go card, I would go generic card because every anniversary card you'll look at will just make you sad and/or pissed off at what you no longer share with your W. What I did was get a blank card with a cute picture on it (hedgehog, hey, I liked it) and put something like "Regardless of what happens, thanks for the laughter, memory and love for the past 12 years."

My W never acknowledged it, but I know she received it. I mailed it to her in Louisiana and it was in her purse (I saw it when getting the checkbook out after she returned -- note, a legitimate reason, at the time, to enter W's purse). Made me feel good to know that she at least didn't crumple it up and toss it. Neither of us have ever said anything about it.

BD