Thought I would start a new post..old one filling up..As the title sayd we really are not moving in either direction..I guess small things have occured that are positive..but h not really making any of the effort to change anything..no calls for talks or time alone together. I did get the Gary Chapman book"Hope for the Seperated" very good book..not quite through with it.What else is there to do to move things along..to get a feel of what h is thinking, or should I leave well enough alone? Sue