Lester,
I'm glad to hear from you again. I was wondering what had happened to you.

You are a human with much dignity. Don't let her destroy that. You are a good person or you woudln't be here trying to save your marriage. She is the one with problems, we all have to realize that about our spouses.

Right now is the time to concentrate on you, because obviously you know that you can't change anything about her.

Take care of you and your children. Do things to make yourself and the kids happy. Stay out of her way and act as if. Save your sad moments for when you are alone.

Give the Paxil time. How long did the doctor say it would take to work? If it's past the amount of time he said, maybe you need to give him a call and perhaps try a stronger dose or something else.

Hang in there. Come on here to vent and get great advice from all of these wonderful people.

Yoyo

Yoyo




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon