Lou's name for his wife is BB. I've forgotten why.
Originally Posted By: Dom
Lil:I guess we've established that Mr. karen likes sex alone.
Dom: when did we establish this? I asked a ways back, if karen KNEW he was doing this, and if so, where/how. I didnt see a reply to this.
Good point. DID we establish this?
Dom's premise, as I understand it, is that (dare I use the n-word?) normal people will want some kind of sex at some point. Or maybe it would be better to say it is normal for people to want some kind of sexual stimulation at some point.
But does mr karen want any kind of sexual stimulation (from karen, another woman, a guy, or himself) at any point? We don't know.
I remember a discussion a long while ago, where a couple of the formerly LD wives on this board (Mrs. NOP was one, but I don't remember who the other one was) were talking about orgasms. Some one said (and I don't think it was me, but it is a thought I've had), "If you have an orgasm and it feels great, wouldn't you like to have another one some time in the future?"
And the woman (Mrs. NOP or somebody else-- maybe it was Chrissy) said, "I have orgasms, and I love them, but if I never had one again, it would be perfectly fine with me.
This seems to be mr karen's attitude, and frankly, my bf's attitude, too. When I have a really great time in the sack with someone and a really great orgasm, usually I'm looking forward to the next time. But I guess some people don't.
In one of the Schnarch books, one of his male clients said something like, "When my wife and I have a really great time in bed and we both have great orgasms, I'm NOT particularly interested in doing it again soon, because I'm not sure I can replicate the experience." He feels that the "great time" kind of raises the bar, and he may not meet it next time.
