I know how you feel, FLTC! It's one of the reasons I fought so hard for my M. I feel, though, that if a M does end, we should just remember the good times, and cherish them, not try and forget it. Even if we stay married, our kids grow up and we think back to their little toys, or activities spent together, and we miss them so much as our little kids (I am going through this at the moment). I think the sadness of it does lessen in time.
Kids grow up, marriages end/start, new lives begin, there are births/deaths, laughter, sadness, and so forth .... these are all the fabric of life that makes up the patchwork of our lives. It's accepting change, while remembering the good in the past, and seeking better in the future, and living in the present, that will allow us to move on in one way or another.
Vasbyt out there! Hope I made sense!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
