down and out...thanks for the advice. its really hard to pull back completely. I can't believe how challengingit is, but I know its correct. I don't think she will look positively at me until I totally detach and gal. this happened early in our relationship and it flipped as soon as I was able to do it and she came back. its so difficult to do right now as the way she acts makes you feel it won't flip back.
maube: how long have you been in your situation, has there been much change, and what's working for you?
