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Littlebitlost,

No sweetie, I wasn't being sarcastic, I was just embarrased. Read my post I made this morning. I'm in SSM forum.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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Sandi..

I read your last posts and sorry to hear you felt unglued yesterday. I did too actually and that's OK. If you dont let that stuff out, I firmly believe that you COULD explode!!! Hoep you have a great weekend too!!!


M: 34
H: 32
M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs
Together: 8
Known him: 15 years
I walked away: April 1st
Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!

Working on me? : NOW!!!!
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Thats not what I am looking for. Think when you to were happy this is hard to explain.

He does something for you trying to communicate something. With the bath he was communicating he did not want you to leave. Of course you took that the wrong way. I want something that he did while you were happy but he was communicating the wrong way. Hope that makes sense. It is a hard thought to put across. Maybe we should start with something you did that he did not see the value in. Or his perception of the act, or gift was different.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.


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I dont think there were things I did very often that he did not get the meaning of. He is very perceptive and deep and if there was I cant think of one or perhaps I did not know?

That is a really hard question.


M: 34
H: 32
M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs
Together: 8
Known him: 15 years
I walked away: April 1st
Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!

Working on me? : NOW!!!!
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sorry or that he did that i did not get the meaning of. I think often you would come right out and tell me as well. I cant believe that for two people who communicated so welll my marriage totally broke down because I stopped communicating


M: 34
H: 32
M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs
Together: 8
Known him: 15 years
I walked away: April 1st
Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!

Working on me? : NOW!!!!
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