Thank you, all of you. Ellie what you say is very true. I know S didn't really want to go, I know this with all my heart, however, with the enormous amount of pressure Dick was applying, along with the brainwashing, S didn't stand a chance.
S told his counselor and his football coaches he didn't want to go, yet his last days here, Dick applied so much pressure S was about to implode. I knew it, I could see it, but I didn't have enough time and there wasn't enough distance from Dick. You see, Dick doesn't loose.... never, and at all cost. He is never wrong, no matter what he has do to prove it. He made up story after story, lies on top of lies to destroy me in the eyes of S and in the eyes of the court, and his attorney took it the rest of the way.
They were simple lies, for instance, he mentioned D had an eating problem, yet, while in CA, she ate just fine, but when she returned, she had to be hospitalized because I withheld food from her.
The truth, when she came home from California, she was 99 pounds.... in the first week she was home, was eating small (yet consistant) portions until her body was ready to accept more food. I gave her complete control over what she took in, as I watched over her from a distance. Well, about a week after she came home, she passed out before breakfast because her blood sugar dipped too low. A glass of orange juice and some cereal quickly brought her back to norm.... yet, after eating I brought her to the Drs. to make sure we didn't have anything else going on. She was given a heart monitor to take home for 24 hours, just to make sure there hadn't been any heart damage.
I didn't tell Dick what was going on, but it must have showed up on his insurance... and this is where he built his story.
Now, so that you don't worry..... by the time school started, D was up to 107 pounds, and today weighs 112 pounds. Not once did I "make" her eat, not once did I challenge her decisions. The heart monitor showed her heart is fine. She is doing well, and looking great.
Now I hope and pray that S is able to turn his anger into understanding, and remember where his home and heart is, along with his true self. I pray and pray Dick looses his power over him.
I miss my boy..... I want him back soon.
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Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........