I use not feel this way though. I was "seperating" very good if I do say so myself. I onetime felt I was "using" him. Maybe it was my best detaching??
I use to convince myself that she doesnt really "have" him if he is still getting it from me,but same goes for me I guess.
Another question:
I know what dbrs have said about no contacting OP,but I want to if only to leave her a message (which H will hear I know) of how we are still having sex & of how his kids miss their dad so much, why dont you go & get you a single man?
I know what your all going to say- That this will only backfire. Ow will feel empowered, etc.
So I guess I will just tell her here.
OW-I know you were once introduced to God. I hope you seek HIM again & do right by HIM and leave my H. H loves his children dearly. I know you know how much he loves them. SO, stop tearing up our family and find your self your own.