Yeah, that's kind of what I was thinking too -- about H's reaction. Also wondering if he's wondering if the surgery may affect our SL.

S3 doesn't know anything about my surgery. I honestly think it's attention getting behavior, which doesn't REALLY make sense, b/c I don't think he's lacking, but . . . I also know for sure that it has A LOT to do w/ H being gone. They were very, very close!!!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10