Hi Christa, Been following your sitch for awhile. H sounds angry which is good. Angry means you still have feelings to work out. The toughest thing I and a lot of us on this BB has had to do is let go of the rope. When the WAS is pulling on the rope the worst thing to do is pull back by trying to convince them to stay. Just let go of the rope and watch them fly back on there butt. Once they get up and wonder what happened I was expecting you to pull back they might change their tune. It does take a lot of effort to go through the D. There is a lot of things that need to be done which take time. A lot of times it's the empowerment from the threat of the D that is the mean reason they do it. Just hang in there and let go of the rope you can always pick it up again when you feel the slack
