Why do you think you've burned a bridge with your friend?
What time zone are you in?
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Grace - I would LOVE to know what you have said to H about living as friends.
I don't mind telling you, but it was bad in a self depricating way. I'd probably have 2x4's taken to me still and it's been over 8 mos since I went there.
Doesn't really matter what any of our LL's are right now. Most of us aren't getting it met. What if you were single, you wouldn't be getting it met either.
Of course you don't feel good honey, you're in crisis.
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Until they really tell us what they are feeling, we are only projecting our own fears, wishes, and hurts into the situation.
Bruce1 posted this on Imageers thread. Very true and wise words.
I know you want him to see the improvements in you. The thing is, you have to make those improvements b/c it's what you want. Not b/c of your M. I know this is hard and it's hard to detach from all you're feeling and even attempt to get at what you really want for your life. I struggle with this everyday. Is he going to turn a corner soon? Probably not. I know this isn't what you want to hear. When he does turn the corner, you don't know which direction he'll be going.
What plans do you have for the weekend? Talk to me.
