My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[saffie]

I KNOW I'M PARONOID BUT DOES IT SOUND LIKE SHE ONLY SEES ME AS A FRIEND NOW INSTEAD OF LOVER OR HUSBAND BASED ON EMAIL????

Being a friend is the most important thing. When my H wasn't my best friend anylonger things went down hill fast.

What she is telling you is that she values you and trusts your judgement. She is NOT saying that you are not her husband or her lover.

STOP beating yourself up. I wouldn't let most of my friends cuddle me through the night. You are so much more. You make her feel safe. She is trying to be nice to you. STOP turning things around and always looking at the negative. you will turn things into a self fulfilling prophecy the way you are going. Lighten up.

Saffie