I personally would give it a 95/5% chance that if you turn him down, he will be drawn closer to you (95% chance that will happen).
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.