People in glass houses (me) shouldn't say anything, but no more snooping. I really struggle with this, trust me. I'm always backsliding here. Ask anyone. I am borderline stalker, but the truth is snooping is only going to drive you crazy. Plus the info you get is just a little piece of the big picture. Then you have to speculate to try and figure it out. You will probably never know if the conclusions you draw are right.
You can't control what he does or who he is with at this point. It sucks, but it is true. Just keep trying to focus on your GAL and doing what you are doing. Also, I would recommend not asking his family questions. It will get back to him, and he will know you were looking into his business. This will only make you look bad and be considered pursuing. Trust me, btdt. Plus, although you may feel they are your family too, eventually they will most likely feel like they have to cover for their brother. Don't put them in that sitch if you want to maintain positive relations with them. They will only resent you.
Have a great day.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
