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[yawmom]

I'm just curious - how do you know if H has truly moved on? Some posts show that H lives with OW w/wo kids, moved out, no finances, no contact etc...how do you know that it isn't over? I mean, it's not a marriage anymore and no matter how you love H he's still not in the marriage.
How do you know it's not "I'm done, see ya later bye"?
I don't understand how some people wait years, when their H is gone and there's nothing there. I understand you have love and hope and prayer, but I guess I don't get how you are suppose to know the diff of waiting or if it's "real" and he's persued his life w/o you.
Yes, I know that people "know" when to call it quits. I just don't know the diff of MLC and wanting out.
I read the posts and some will wait til the ends of the Earth, although their Spouse left them behind has OW preg, or in debt, or never contact them.
It's not my sit cuz H has been in contact here and there, has given money (not enought), yet talks about building a life. Still has OW in life, doubt it they'll stay together etc.
I'm confused.

And yes this is a new post because it's a question I need to figure out.