You did do great but you got to stop letting her use you to prop herself up like this. Is she going to do this if she goes off with OM - I think not. She needs a big dose of reality here.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength