I'm still doing it

[nephartiti]

H is supposedly going to be here within the next half hour. However, I have a feeling, he will stay with her for her first period conference, go to his optomotrist appt, then show up later and not have enough time to finish what he was going to do.

I'm such a schmuck sitting here waiting for him. Talk about pathetic. He must relish in his knowledge that I am sitting here awaiting his arrival. He has way too much power/control.

How can I set a boundary without pushing? If I don't even get a "I'm running late call" by 9, should I just take the kids and go somewhere? Then I can say, well I expected you at such and such a time. I didn't hear from you. I had some things to do.

Any feedback? This communication/visist territory is new for me. I was just getting the hang of darkness, now I'm spinning a little with all this contact. I want to make sure I don't screw up.