You are wright again in the fact that I need to backoff on the using the jelousy handle. I was also thinking along the same lines. I can see the hurt in his eyes when he thinks there might be someonelse. In the beginning I liked the way he responded b/c it was the only way he was showing me he still cared (as he put it in his own words)"I obviously still care". I suppose its my way of showing him I will not be waiting in the wings forever. Please, Heim remind to stop doing this. I noticed since I last reinforced him that there was no OP, he seems to be a little more relaxed around me. I cant remember what author it was,aslo he's been mentioned here- Homer? who advocates instilling jelousy in the WAS?
WAW1978,
The kleenex- LOL!
CVA,
I do beleive the sexual connection does help a bit H feel loved especially since he doesnt know how to express it verbally.
Its too bad this time around I did feel used. I had not felt like that in along time. I guess b/c I keep hearing him say is coming back but still nothing.
I did let him know that his definition of "dating" is not the same as I know dating. So, lets see if next time he takes me out?
