Out of the Abyss...

[limbo]

Edie,

Both Cat and Sara hit it right on the head, they are so messed up they just don't which way to turn.
When my H went back to ow in July he said it was the guilt, that he just didn't feel he derserved better, and he couldn't live with me with the guilt, he had told me we was going to leave.
But in the end(i hope) he decided he wanted me and his family and that him leaving would only make things worse, as far as how the kids saw him.
So there is hope, but he needs to figure that out for himself. As Sara said its probably a good idea to contact the Retro people for some guidance.

Take care of yourself!