Maybe he is worried and scared about the surgery. When on the phone you can't always tell why the person at the other end is strained.

Son3 may also have been acting up because of the surgery. He is probablt attention seeking to do with that.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength