hugs)))))))) i'm so sorry you are going through this.
He couldnt' have gone far without cell nor clothes, my guess is that he is dumbfounded again, and much like my H and his 2mth 2nd affair in Jun-Jul he is at a loss of what to do now that you found him out. He's prob out there buying time, wondering what the heck he is doing--because I'm sure he does not know what he is doing, prob feels guilt drawing him to op (instead of affection). It took a lot for my H to break it off with op, to tell her in a letter they could never see each other again, they are giving up their good-feeling "drug".
It is not all lost, I dare to think. My H would txt me "I don't know why I keep sabotaging us". Your H did try to make things right, he went to Retro., the problems lies in that he isn't right with himself, he needs to right himself up before he can commit and give you what you need.
Hang in there honey.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
