My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[saffie]

GISH
It is great that she is confused but NOW is the time to set boundaries.

If she wants to come gome then say to her NO OM.

She cannot keep dumping on you about OM. It's fine if she has finished with him but it is not fine if she is just using you to prop her up when she waivers and then she goes back to seeing him.

Her having her own place has scared OM off. He is no threat to you. Control your emotions. If she comes back because she wants you and loves you that is good. If she is coming back because she feels rejected by OM and OM is unfinished business then that is NOT good. You know which it is. Be realistic and be truthful with yourself.

(((((HUGS))))))

Saffie