Found out late July, and I figure it had been an EA for most of the year and the a PA from about May or so. I am with my W at home and I guess we are working on it. She does not talk or say anything as to how she is feeling which worries me. Just that she needs space and time alone and that her feelings for the OM are real and strong.
That is my stich in a short little nutshell. The OM is working on his marriage as well and we knew that there would be this incidental contact, just had no idea as to what the feelings or reactions would be. Hopefully will get easier as time goes by. I said that if I feel a little more secure about my situation and my marriage at home that it should be ok, so obviously I don't feel very secure based on my reaction and my emotions.
We have been trying to have a baby for the past 2 years, and when all this started we were doing artificial insemination. I know how much my wife wanted it and then she gave it all up in a way have her A. That obviously hurts as well so maybe I just need a shovel and have to bury it all.
