I had a great-aunt (my maternal grandfather's only sibling) who was a nun. She would say those exact words to me every now an then. I actually wrote those very words on a little post-it and placed it on my monitor and look at them everyday. Those words bring back fond memories. Thanks.
Although I appreciate the optimism of you and Save, I no longer have the hope or energy for the dream of reconciliation. I hardly talk with my WAW now (makes me sad and I find it hard to believe) and have come to the conclusion, sadly, that I must file (currently in talks with attorney). However, I hope you and Save do achieve that dream.
Hope you have a great time in Puerto Rico!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM