I don't think there are many men who don't fall into your description. It would be very difficult to stay with a woman who did not have sex with us. Barring a physical ailment or any "worse" in "for better or worse" we have to just accept. However, I don't think just denying sex cuz you don't want to is a valid reason. There would clearly be something else wrong with the R.
So long way of sayong I think the general statement you made is right, at least from the male POV.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.