Hey OT
Not sure I understand what your "NOT" means in both cases, can u explain?

Don't get her a card???
Why am I "NOT" persuing?

Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.