YOU DID GREAT, as good as I have it I wish I had a breck through like you just had. don't mention to her anymore things like "It doesn't make you weak or a failure just because you didnt like it." Let her say these things if she wants and then just say sorry she feels that way. You can't tell her she should n0ot feel that way becase NOBODY can tell anybody how the should feel.
Doing good big guy
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know