Truly Piecing once and for all!

[Heartbroken]

Hello Limbo,

Thanks for asking - trying to stay in the present moment (PM) and not worry about if he is talking to OW again or what the future will bring. I have no reason to believe he's in contact with her but this has been his pattern as soon as he starts getting sad/withdrawn it's because they are in contact again. H would be the biggest fool to have started it up again considering what it would do to our kids. So I have to believe H is telling me the truth that there has been no contact. What other choice do I have....

I am a control freak and it's hard to let things go - I just want to fix everything ASAP and this has been the hardest thing. Learning some patience and accepting that I cannot fix H - he has to do it himself. I have been fairly positive all week so things have been going well. It seems so like we are dealing with things at the surface and there's a whole second layer waiting to unfold. We are just taking it day by day.

I did send in my check for the weekend of 10/26 - only three weeks away so that is good. H says he wants to do this too hopefully I am not putting to much faith in this weekend!!

Have a great weekend everyone!! TGIF!!!

HB