chicki's drama 4 h moved back, but for THIS?

[Heimlich]

OK, ms. sexcapade, I don't think it's totally true that all men "need" sex in order to feel loved, but many of us feel more loved when we're getting sex from the one that we love. It's a physical expression of what we feel inside -- at least for me.

I'm not one of those guys, but rumor has it that there are men out there that use women like kleenex. From the way you describe what's going on, I lean away from your H treating you that way. He seems honestly confused, but he IS doing a fair bit of cake-eating. However, if you're enjoying yourself and not feeling used . . . I honestly have no clue which way you should go to move your R with your H alone -- cut him off or give in.

Also, not sure about the jealousy angle you keep playing with H. Be careful, you seem to be playing with fire by doing that.

BD