This past weekend was okay. We had a birthday party for my son with the family and took our motorcycles out for a short ride on Sunday.
On Monday I asked her about something that had been bothering me. I mentioned in a previous post that she had refused to tell me the name of a person that she had had a P/EA with several years back. I brought this up again and she again did not want to tell me. I told her that I thought is was a particular person that she is currently friends with, but she denied it. Told her that I would go on believing that it was him unless she could tell me otherwise. I also said that unless she could be completely honest with me, then I couldn't see how we could continue working on things. Eventually she did give me the name of the person. Someone that she had worked with in a previous company. She swears that she only sees him occasionally at social events and that there is no longer any emotional attachment there. As a side note, I noticed that she wasn't wearing her rings today.
On Tuesday, W goes out to happy hour where this particular person we spoke of the previous night will be. She had planned on being home by 7 as I had also made plans to go out that night. She calls at 7 however and is still at the bar but on her way out. She gets home around 8. I go out to meet her and she is on her cell with someone. I left my phone at work, so she gives me hers to take out with me. I go to the bar with friends from work, and of course check to see who she was last talking to. Come to find out, it was the OG that we had discussed the night before.
I really don't think anything is going on there any longer, but it just gets my mind racing. Am I doing the right thing by trying to make things work? Can I get the trust back? Will things really get better?
Rest of the week was pretty much quite. She had the rings back on on Wednesday, but she seems more distant than ever.
