Thanks, i have told them what i'm doing, but they think he's already had enough chances. It's difficult because i'm still in the dark. H has said that he is only seeing this ow on a professional level. (he still hasn't admitted to the A)The problem is he's still acting like he's involved. It's difficult because sometimes i think, should i be doing LRT or should i be trying more in terms of spending time together or asking more for what i want. I did a bit last night. I said that i'm fed up the lack of reassurance that he wants to be with us. He was a little defensive but said he would try harder. Well, if i'm honest i did give him a bit of a barrage. I said i don't want to live a celibate life and if he keeps seeing this ow on any level. We haven't got a hope. I also said that i'm willing to be patient, but i will not tolerate him putting a close friendship with another women over our marriage.
I know, that was probably a bit too much.. but i've been so cool for so long i sort of felt he needed shaking up a bit. What do you think. Was i too pushy.
