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So, if he's not home tomorrow, doesn't call, change the locks. Set your boundaries. He's bouncing back and forth...and that's just not okay. Draw that line in the sand and make him work to get you back.


Oh! For the strength to follow through with that! Thank you for posting to me!
There was a time when I was strong enough to walk away, to draw the line, to stick to my decisions. There was a time when I made sure I got what I wanted and needed. I think you are right on SD. It is not ok.

I only have strength for lying around. I am exhuasted. I am undone.


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley