Limbo - I hear what you are saying. I know how you feel. My H left, again last night - ugh. I am so very tired of working at this. Even before he left I have felt that way. Retrouvaille is great, but it is a lot of work when done properly. Not to mention that you are stirring up emotions that you may not have expressed before. Dialoguing in and of itself is exhausting, especially when two people are working so hard at it. I also think that you may be worried/stressed out by H working with OW. I know first hand the toll that can take on you. The worry alone is enough to make your head spin and cause exhaustion. I'm sorry I have no words of wisdom of how to overcome it all. I myself am struggling right now, I just wanted to let you know that I know exactly how you feel. ((((LIMBO))))
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
