Hi Truelove, thanks for checking in on me, I have just read up on your thread and things seem to be going good for you, you have my best wishes and hope it turns out as you wish, take care of yourself and guard your heart. hugs. I feel I am pulling away from the bb quite a lot, I don't know what it is I just feel that he will never come round so I will never get to post good news like you, my life is on hold at the moment waiting for the god damn authorities to get me a house it is then that I will draw the final line and steam on ahead with my own home, don't get me wrong we are not down and dismal just fed up living in this place that we don't consider home anymore, one day I do know that xh is going to fall and regret what he as done, maybe I will never get to see that, who knows all I know is it is too late for him to come to me or our son, the bridge he as burnt is a big one, I do still feel sorry for him and don't think he realises what he as done, I just feel and know that the skank is going to do the dirty on him one day.